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All not bad but the Flow Was Just To Much was just to much took me right out of the storyitself this wasn t the life or fairy "TALE YOU SAID YES TO FIRST "you said yes to First Ugly Love is the PERFECT title for this book for this trap that we ither are born into fall foror both To give a detailed description would be giving away all the best parts of this book A narcissist Cruel selfish narrow mindeddestructive without remorse If you re living with one read this book If you ve survived one read this book If you re related to one read this book Warning it will trigger ALL your issues but that s an vil necessity This book validates your uestioning suspicions and unnecessary self doubt If you don t know where to begin to seek help to get out to search out your truth and seek helpbegin with this book Break the cycle for veryone involved somewhat of a spoilerthe section on divorce I felt like I opened up parts of my own journal It validated some of the choices I made And sometimes validation is priceless This is one of the best books from a Survivor s perspective I ve read The author describes her own painful and devastating journey with her Narcissistic mother and then the abusive Narcissistic man that was her husband for many yearsIt s than just her story which I related to so much with both relationships but it s informative as to what Narcissist s do and how there are varying degrees of it It has a brilliant A Certain Justice (Adam Dalgliesh, extensive section on gaslighting most books cover it but this really dissects the crazy making way it messes you up I got so much from thatAnother uniue aspect I love about this book and watch my reviews go berserk on Narcissists as I m reading all I can get my hands on is the powerful With the full blown narcissistic personality disorder There's ambivalence on the part of psychologists and otherxperts on whether a narcissist can change So what do you do Do you stay or do you go Can your partner be the one who changes Laura Charanza is a survivor of forty years of narcissistic abuse Laura has worked with psychologists physicians life coaches and spiritual healers to understand narcissism and a narcissist's victims With mpathy and transparency l Laura tells first hand the story of a typical and toxic relationship with a narcissist But understand that there is a way out and here is where your journey to freedom peace and true love can begi. This book helped me to understand someone very close to me It changed my life I highly recommend those who suffer from narcissist people in their lives to read it "I LOVE THE MESSAGE AND RECEIVED "love the message and received great pockets of inspiration but the grammatical rrors and misprints drove me

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This author did a good job describing life with a narcissist She used great Cinderella Unmasked (Fairytale Fantasies examples from her own life She also interviewed several psychologists who gave great input This little book has a lot of good information for anyone who has been in the clutches of a narcissist so I appreciate that However the advice is minimal and fairly basic so it s best used as an intro book on the subject Not the best book in terms of writing skills but relatable content and helpful advice in my preferred form storyI really wish I had no need to be reading survivors stories of narcissistic abuse but here we are And hopefully I ll have one of my own to add soon For now I just find it helpful to know that I am not alone Anxperience that many would relate to presented in a professional way without loosing the personal human motional aspect of the bitterness and trauma one passes through Laura Charanza wrote Ugly Love as a two time survivor of narcissistic abuse In her book she shows how living with a narcissistic person follows a specific pattern and how anyone could fall into their trap In the last uarter of the book Charanza discusses how you can get help and support from narcissistic abuse utilizing her own xperiences to show that it is possible to leave and rebuild your life While I found that Charanza had a lot of great information and input from professionals I feel like this book was Have you The Power Of A Choice ever felt like a normal discussion turns into him raging at you while you cower in the corner not certain what just happened to set him off Have you felt like you would be punished if you stand up for yourself Have youver been told you are imagining things and veryone thinks you're crazy Have you been told no one lse could ver love you Have you been led to believe this is all your fault If you feel like you are living a fairy tale turned nightmare then you may be a victim of narcissistic abuse Abusive relationships with a narcissist follow a specific pattern There's the initial stage of love bombing where he's prince charming and you are his prin.

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Arketed differently The cover says that it is a Survivor s Story on Narcissistic Abuse but only includes a few xamples from her personal xperiences I guess I thought this book would be of a memoir and less of a "Textbook Outline Of Narcissists I Also Found "outline of narcissists I also found ways to take back your life section to be lacking and relying too heavily on religion faith and spiritual healing I would like to see research on how this is helpful to someone who just left an abusive relationship Again Laura Charanza had some really interesting information but I found it lacking than informative THis book is all about a woman s xperience living wish a Narcissist and dealingwith the constant abuse and manipulation that he placed on her It was heartbreaking to listento how he made her uestion her own judgement on things that she knew to be true I can t imagine having to live under that constant bagering it would drive anyone crazy THis bookreally opens the readers yes to things that are not right in relationships and helps shinethe light on things that abusers would rather have left in the shadows I m
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I got toread this because its very different than other books of its kind It gives you informationhowever it doesn t flood your brain and it also gives you a story along with it Nice read I think the part that I liked the best about this book had to be how informative and compellingthe information was I couldn t put this book down in the beginning ach chapter was like a little mini novel with all new information What I didn t like about this book was I found the flow of it very choppy it had my going back to see if I was missing pages because the ideas were all overthe place Over. Cess and soulmate Then the debasement starts The rules start changing Just when you think you know what he wants the standards change again Then he isolates you You aren't allowed to see family and friends If you do you are punished with silence or rancid accusations Then there's the Monsieur Pain escalation of conversations into turbulent arguments only for him to apologize and start the cycle all over again If you feel hopeless don't There is a way out and yourxit plan begins with understanding what you are going through and how you nded up there Narcissism is a spectrum disorder A person can xhibit a few symptoms of being a narcissist or nough traits to be diagnosed.
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